Susan Fay West, Certified Organizer Coach 
Life’s big changes. We all get overwhelmed sometimes.

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  • in ways that make sense to you and how you’re wired.
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    How Much Change is Happening: Part 2- Practicing.

    November 18th, 2014

    Last  blog, I wrote about questions to ask yourself so that  you can keep track of how much change is going on for you, over the  course of time. Why is that important? Because we often don’t realize how much accumulated change has happened, and when we don’t acknowledge it, we are left wondering why we are feeling low, or being less productive, or being cranky for no apparent reason. And, because if you’re not recognizing how much is happening, you may slide down that rabbit hole, black hole, into the abyss, and not even know why you got there. And then it’s more difficult to  pull yourself out and get back to level ground.

    The last blog is here. This article is about a story in my recent life which is an example of how practicing for change you know is going to happen will help you deal with the change more easily.

    Practice for Changes You Know Will Happen

    Practice? Yes, and the idea came from our dog Malik’s trainer. (Well, right; she trains all three of us. I know.) Donna’s at a new company, and instead of working mainly from home, she will work five days at her company. That leaves Malik and me. I used to be the backup sitter, not the primary one.

    Malik changes routinesThis is a big responsibility change, along with routines and schedule shifts (most routines, meals, work/personal time, his exercise time, bed/wake times… you name it.).

    We figured out a few things which have helped me tremendously already.

    I tell you this because it’s an example of practice, perspective, and figuring out what works for you – no matter the change.

    • Before the first day of the new job, I practiced last week, just Malik and me, working through my workday, to see how his routines and mine would come together. The practical piece.
    • I have more than one backup plan. This week, we are alone.  I’m not in a panic, which would have been my normal, as I attempt to be as productive as I usually am. I have a sense of how my day needs to shift so that he and  I can co-exist peacefully. The psychological piece.

    There will be lots of surprises, but I have plans A, B, C and D to fall back on.  Why so many? Because, for me, it gives me choices. For me, it’s less  pressure.

    I’m more apt to let go of “plan A” as being the only way to manage my days, because I have other ways to get my work done, if he has a crazy day or crazy afternoon sometime. He’s just a puppy, so he’s going to have those.

    It’s much easier to stop resisting what is, over which I  have little control (a puppy’s impact on my day), if I know I have other options. (In this case, my other options  could be: Spend the time with him during the day, and work after dinner; get up earlier than I had been; use some weekend time; have him take a nap in his crate.)


    So look backwards to reflect and understand what would work better for you,  for the next time.

    • Find a way (or a person) to remind you of what has worked in the past, because emotions will cloud your memory. (I used past experiences of post surgery care, family staying for several week’s  visit, etc.). More on that in my next blog.)
    • Visualize, practice, talk through your routine changes.
    • Consider not only the practical  side, but also how you’ll react to all this change, so you can  take care of your psyche,  too.

    What changes are going on for you lately or do you see coming up? And how could you make them easier to manage?  How do you keep track of the level of changes in your life?



    How Much Change is Happening in Your Life?

    November 11th, 2014

    One of the most difficult challenges is noticing how much change is happening in your life. Yes, you can feel it when too much change is happening, but by the time you feel it, you could be sick, or feeling so overwhelmed that you’re either slogging or speeding through your days. Neither feels good.

    The strategies to cultivate? Keep track of how much change is happening. And practice for changes you know are headed your way. (Part one of a two part blog.)

    This happens to me, too.”All  of a sudden” overwhelm kicks in. Energy and productivity drop off. And then when I really think about it, I notice how much change has gone on in my life (personal or business or both).  So it’s not “all of a sudden.” I wasn’t paying enough attention. I have a couple of strategies to share today, from my own experience and ideas clients have come up with during coaching.

    Regain Perspective: How Much Change is Happening?Time for Change

    • Take 5 minutes sometime at least once a week and stop. Shut out the  distractions so you can think. (How? Where? In bed. In the shower. Before you get to sleep. In the car before you start the engine or after turning it off. While walking, writing, exercising… or close the door to your office or room at home.)
    • What unusual events or situations have happened in the past six months or so? Include changes for people  you are close to as well.
    • What is different with your sleep, exercise, or other self-care and grounding (centering) rituals?
    • Where do you feel there is more? Have you added responsibilities to your plate: helping an older relative, adding a new volunteer role, stepping up at work, managing more people or partners?

    When you answer these questions, you may notice that there is far more change than you had realized.

    This perspective is useful to understand why we are feeling or behaving as we are (if it’s different). And, to reflect on what might work better for us:  How could I  handle this type of situation better next time? How could I notice the signals before things get overwhelming? Or not let so much change happen at once? Or ask for more support, help, therapy or coaching next time? How can I notice when too much is happening so that I could take care of myself better next time?


    So look backwards to reflect and understand what would work better for you,  for the next time. And find a way (or a person) to remind you of what has worked in the past, because emotions will cloud your memory. I used past experiences of post surgery care, family staying for several week’s  visit, etc.). More on that in my next blog.

    Visualize, practice, talk through your routine changes. And consider not only the practical  side, but also how you’ll react to all this change, so you can  take care of your psyche,  too.

    What changes are going on for you lately or do you see coming up? And how could you make them easier to manage?  How do you keep track of the level of changes in your life?


    ADHD Support Team – Crucial to Living Your Best Life

    October 28th, 2014

    “Why do I need to have all these people helping me to organize and manage my life?”

    I hear that question often, when I work with clients who are struggling, often with the impact of a fairly recent ADHD diagnosis, and often with women at mid-life.

    With a diagnosis of ADHD, you’ve learned something brand new (and big) about yourself.

    And as you already know, this changes a lot. ADHD affects every aspect of your life, from how you see yourself to your money management, to relationships and more.

    What “Team?”

    Therapist. ADHD coach. ADHD organizer. Your meds person. Business coach or life coach. Caregiving support group. Pilates or yoga instructor. Naturopath. Webinars, books, and podcasts.

    You probably already have many team members and just never stopped to think about them altogether, as a supporting team.


    Because it’s not you. It’s your brain.

    Your team members are experts who have already been through this. They will work with you so you get from Point A to Point B a lot faster and more smoothly.

    Your “Point A to Point B” will be any sort of goal you have, though it could start with answering a foundational question: How is your ADHD showing up in your life? What do you want to do about it?

    So think of your team members as “ life preservers.”

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    A “life saver” –That’s someone who rushes into rescue you at the last minute. You’re helpless.

    A life preserver (like the real object) puts you in charge. It’s a partnership between you and that life preserver to get you where you want to go. You’re not helpless. Just the opposite.

    Life preservers keep you afloat so that YOU can more easily swim back to the ship. They don’t carry you back.

    You direct. You swim. You make your own way back and you set the pace.

    They make the trip easier so you can focus on where you need to get to.

    Then when you get to where you wanted to be, you can let go of those life preservers, or use some, but not all.

    Same with your team of coaches and experts.


    Maybe you’re saying: I don’t know if I can do this.

    when we resist change

    Many of you may already be a ‘team leader’ for your child who has ADHD or some brain based challenge; or you’re caregiving for a spouse, partner or parent; or you manage your entire household and family’s activities.

    If you have participated in an Al Anon, AA, overeaters anonymous, clutter support group –that experience definitely gives you a leg up, too.  You already know the power and support that comes from a group of compassionate, non judgmental people who have been through something similar.

    A client offered these thoughts from someone who has a good deal of professional and personal experience with 12 step programs. What makes the team concept work is partly about the individuals and partly about the program:

    1) Willing to change
    2) We program, expecting to be part of a team called “the fellowship”
    3) Significant distress tolerance
    4) Hopeful orientation towards future
    5) Faith in a Higher Power who will make things turn out all right.


    If you think you can, then you can…

    … maybe with a bit of support or coaching to organize your thoughts and strategies – if so, please call or write.

    Happy to support, whether it’s one call or a regular time until you’re ready to launch.

    603.554.1948 is my office line. [email protected] is my email.


    In November, my colleague, Andrea Sharb, ACC Coach and I present at CHADD* a newly designed workshop, called “Creating the Best Team for Your Adult ADHD Self.” It’s all about teams and collaboration among team members. It does take a village, at some point, for all of us, doesn’t it.  (*CHADD: Children and Adults with ADHD; international conference.) We were interviewed about our workshop and the link is part of another post I wrote recently here.



    ADHD Support: Step #1 Build Your Team (CHADD Talk Preview)

    October 7th, 2014

    You’re an adult, with ADHD. Diagnosed or “pretty sure of it.” You may have recently discovered this about yourself, or discovered it awhile ago but at that stage of your life, it was all too much to wrestle with.

    So you put it aside. But now it’s jumped onto the front burner.

    Maybe your choice and maybe not: an issue cropped up in your relationships, at work, or for some other reason.

    But you’re ready to roll now. You’re tired of “it” getting in your way.

    You’re tired of knowing what to do. But you don’t do it.

    You have been reading and notice that you do look at things differently from some of the people in your life.

    Or you have challenges other people don’t seem to struggle with as much as you do.

    It’s time.

    OK. Awareness. But so what and now what?

    You can make some changes – more on that later – which will make daily life much easier.

    You can use ADHD-friendly strategies instead of trying to force fit something into your life. And not apologize for this.

    You can educate yourself on how to manage and make great use of your ADHD and your strengths. Because, you do have them, even if it might not feel like it some days.

    You’ll get more out of your life because you’re headed down a path of making things “fit” better for how you think, work, make connections and live.

    Because you’re aware and paying attention, you’ll discover ways to support what’s most important to you, using a variety of resources, team members, and even collaboration among professionals, to get you where you want to be.

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    What Did You Miss? Or Did You?

    September 25th, 2014

    Did you miss any? Or maybe you’d prefer to read the articles all at once?  Here’s a roundup of newsletter articles sent so far during 2014, with a quick summary for each, and a link to read more if that topic interests you. Click here if you’re not on the newsletter list and would like to be.

    Last edition:

    9/9/2014Perspectives from My Summer Retreat & Why Perspectives Are Useful


    So many ways to think about this word, a favorite lately.  I’ve learned how valuable perspective is, as I’ve looked back on a particular life stage or chapter. Looking at it with wiser eyes, I can consider other possibilities that could be have been true then. I did the best I knew how to, then.

    You can use perspective to pull back from a major decision and, trying on different vantage points and/or attitudes about the decision, you’ll find different ways to look at that decision. What if I did this instead … If I believed more in myself, like so-and-so does, then I would decide to …

    This month’s main article is about a few of my perspectives, gained during my personal retreat this summer. These came from slowing down life, going off the technology grid, and taking some workshops, along with conversations I’ve had along the way. Read the newsletter here.



    6/17/2014 – What Do You Need to “Get Back to?”

    Nelson Mandela said: “The greatest glory in living lies in never falling, but in rising every time we fall.”

    Because if we never fell, then life would be perfect. WE would be perfect. “Too smooth” sailing, even though some days, it feels as if nothing goes smoothly, not one minute of it.

    But sometimes it feels like it’s all too much. We are stuck and don’t know or can’t find what we need to get back to it, back on track, and practicing what we know has worked for us before.

    It’s not usually simply a practical issue. Our emotions, self-esteem, and frustrations throw themselves into the mix, too. BUT the practical strategies do help build a track record of small wins, which strengthen the “muscles” of self-esteem, confidence, and hope.

    So, where last month’s article, “When Everything Feels Like a Priority,” was about what to do when everything seems to need to get done right now …  this month, I have strategies for when it feels as if things are sliding backwards, and you need to get back on track. Try just one strategy and see how it works for you.  I dare you.  In the kindest possible way. Read the newsletter here.


    And chronologically from the beginning of this year:

    01/03/2014 – Be That Person
    Would you like to increase your chances of achieving your goals this year? What could be different this time around? You’ve always had commitment. You’ve started out well. You felt you were being realistic. And then, well, by the end of the year, you hadn’t met the goal.  Flummoxed, floundering and feeling like you’d failed. Sigh.There are reasons all along the way for what might have happened, but today, I’ll focus on creating the goal, and I believe you’ll read some new ideas here. If we miss creating the “right” goal, well, a lot of the rest won’t matter.  So here we go. Suggestions for creating a goal that will work for you…  Be That Person (click to read on)


    02/11/2014 – Lost: Commitment to Goals. If found, please contact

    Today’s topic? Commitment.   Sometimes, we procrastinate getting started on a goal or a project or even a relationship.

    One reason can be that we are less committed than we think we are.  We say we are committed to the goal. But what we feel or think subconsciously is out of sync and really not on board with the goal. What to do?

    What questions can you ask yourself to know whether you really are committed to the goal? Because if the commitment’s not there, that’s going to be a problem when things get difficult or you need to push out of your comfort zone….Lost: Commitment to Goals. If found, please contact



    03/25/2014 – The Village You Choose

    In “The Village You Choose,” you’ll read about life preservers.  When you have a looming and large new challenge or life change, these people, these life preservers, will support you, educate and encourage you as you take steps into your next chapter.

    These friends, colleagues and professionals are those who respect you and believe in you, perhaps more than you believe in yourself, at that time of change. They do not step in and save you. They buoy you up when you need it and for as long as you do…. The Village You Choose



    05/06/2014 – When Everything Feels Like a Priority

    We’ve just now arrived at springtime here in New Hampshire, after what we are all calling one of the very longest winters we’ve had.  It’s all beautiful, these changing seasons, but boy, this winter we all felt closeted, stuck, claustrophobic … until finally, some warmer weather arrived to begin the big snow melt.

    So we burst out of winter and into springtime and quickly into school vacations.  LOTS of change and transitions and “stuff to do.”

    It’s as if the gates came up on all of us and we raced out of the gates. And then we sprinted too fast and tired, got overwhelmed, and are trying to swing back.

    So, where last month’s article was about working with people who work with you to assist your home or work life, this month’s article is about how to help yourself when you’re feeling like you have too much on your plate, and “Everything is a Priority.”   When Everything Feels Like a Priority
    To our imperfect lives …


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